Dating in the 3rd Millenium may seem to resemble gladiatorial combat, with earnest males braving the tempestous lionesses known as “liberated” women.
This is an opportunity, not a problem.
For some of you men, divorced, in your mid-30s to mid-40s, realize that the average 22 year old coed has probably 10 times more dating experience than you do. Women your own age are liable to have vastly more sexual experience that you do.
In short, you need to learn how to plan a date.
Planning a date requires two things from you: a gut check on willingness to get out there in the big, bad world and get what you want, and the tenacity to organize your life for success in dating.
You would think nothing of organizing your life for success in business, so don’t think any less of organizing for success in dating.
Women
As women age, their standards for what they want in men become pickier and pickier. This is very much counter-productive.
Men
As men age, their standards for a woman’s looks become much less important, but how a woman treats him as a man becomes much, much more important. This is a difficult point to explain to guys in their 20s: a young woman is attractive simply because she is young! On the other hand, if she treats you poorly, of any age, why bother?
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